Rules blog dating
Like John Travolta’s character Danny Zuko in Grease, the men of today (and yesteryear) all labour through the trials of dating under the misguided notion that “playing it cool” gets the girl. Well, if the dating game today is anything to go by, then apparently we do. Following “The Rules” that state that you cannot seem too interested in a guy is probably the wrong way to go about getting your man. Do we really think that “treat ’em mean to keep ’em keen” is really all it’s cracked up to be?You’ve single-handedly built a successful career and enjoy great relationships with a solid network of friends, so how hard can it be?You’re full of optimism, but soon see how tough it is.It seems that the dating world is full of guys being overly cool and girls being uncommonly cold.
What if I promised you higher quality men who understand what women want, so you meet fewer time wasters and experience less heartache and less confusion?
Someone who is uninterested will just leave you hanging.
They won’t call you or even return your calls, and to be honest, you should really have spotted that something is wrong at this stage.
The hard to get player will take a genuine interest in your life.
They may still not seem 100%, keen and will try to maintain the act of indifference, but the personal questions they ask give them away.
But the fact that they still give you some kind of encouraging signal suggests that you are the one they want to get “caught” by.